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Monday, June 30, 2014

A Time for Everything


A  Time for Everything

    Wise old king Solomon said in Ecclesiastes chapter 3 that there is a time for everything. Everything! There is a time (season) to marry, a time to be single, a time to go to school, a time to rest, and a time to work, etc…

     There is a time and place to talk about sports and life, but there is also a time to talk about the Lord, His Truth and His ways.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

How God Speaks versus How The Devil Speaks


How God Speaks versus How The Devil Speaks

     God says give and Lucifer says take. Further, God often speaks in a small, still voice despite His vastness (few ever hear Him audibly); yet Satan rants, raves and condemns because of his smallness. God is love, a consuming fire, and the Light. God teaches abstinence, reserve, conviction, balance, stewardship, conduct and love. Next time you struggle with whether it is God or Satan speaking to you, examine the voice.

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Commit it to the Lord


Commit it to the Lord

       Give God your regret, unrighteous motives, lies, gossip, and bitterness. Anything that is ungodly in your life should be turned over to Him—as the song says “surrender all!” Surrender it because you cannot pay the debt for your sin. You can only accept the gifts that God gives you, two of which are salvation and the power to walk in the light as He is in the light.

“Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof. Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.” Romans 6:12-13 KJV

Friday, June 27, 2014

Love – you can’t spend enough time on this topic


Love – you can’t spend enough time on this topic

     A changed (transformed) life displays Christ’s love. His love is a firm love, yet a merciful, forgiving and non-compromising love.

     Love is the key to forgiveness and true love of God and others fulfills all the Commandments.

Read John 3:16-17 and all of 1 John.

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Birth Control – a means of making man a god


Birth Control – a means of making man a god

     Birth control is just plain wrong. It is a form of abortion, and a slap in God’s face. The Pill is used for “safe sex,” child “control” and gratification of selfish pride. Those pills are used to take God’s GIFT OF CHILDREN away!! Children are a blessing (Psalm 127:3-5, Matthew 18:10, Mark 10:14, Mark 9:37), yet if you have more than two you are thought of as strange today. God said to be fruitful and multiply. If we, as humans, are supposed to fill the earth, then why do we keep taking matters into our own hands. A woman does not conceive by chance, because chance doesn’t exist with God; therefore, why have we attempted to play God and stop conception? Our free will has cost lives. . . .

         Man is not an animal, we are not supposed to propagate, rather populate BY GOD’S STANDARDS, which means that sex is to stay within marriage.

“Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.  Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.”

Psalms 127:3-5 KJV

God intends for Christians to desire large families. This is the desire that He placed in the Children of Israel and has historically been continued by Christians who love the Lord throughout the ages since our Lord’s ascension.

God’s ways bring multiplication, fruit and growth

Satan’s ways bring destruction, and death

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

We must be an Example


We must be an Example

 God calls us to be an example. Young adults, I believe that you have a special opportunity to be such an example. Check out this verse: “Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity (1 Timothy 4:12 KJV).” This verse lays out The Timothy Commission

To portray the proper example we must have proper character, and character is formed by our personal habits.

Questions and Thoughts

P Are you making the right choices?

P Do you have the right kind of habits?

P Great men fall because of the little stuff—it isn’t all big; everything starts out as something small.

P  Your habits are formed by your choices.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

The Desires of Your Heart


The Desires of Your Heart

“Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.” Psalm 37:4 KJV

  I do not believe that this Scripture is referring to your lusts and fleshly passions when it talks about the desires of your heart. If that is what it meant, God would be condoning sin! God does place His desires in your heart for a reason as you seek Him. One desire that has really been on my heart for years is a wife: even a little boy I’ve looked forward to getting married and having a family. I don’t see God moving in this area; yet He is working in my life. HE placed that desire in my heart for a reason, and God is never slow about carrying out His promises. As I continue to delight myself in the Lord, spend time in His presence, and share His Word, I am sure that His perfect timing will fulfill every desire that is from Him. Any lustful or sinful desire; however, will be cast to the ground for sin cannot dwell in the heart of a person after God. Sin may tempt, but it cannot inhabit a vessel of the Lord unless Satan is given a foothold, for what fellowship has light with darkness, life with death; how does a good tree produce bad fruit?

Close today in prayer and then read all of Psalm 37; as you do so be prepared to learn from the Holy Spirit.

Monday, June 23, 2014

Porn


Porn

  I have read many articles and testimonies from boys and men that have battled with this ugly monster. But let me assure you, most of the things that I have learned; any wisdom that my soul might now cling to, has come from using the gifts of my ears and eyes to listen and to read, and using my mind to muse over something and consider the matter. I have found that God is the only way out of an addiction to pornography.

 God accepts me despite my failures and despite all my sins and all my miserable shortcomings. If He can accept me, one of the worst sinners, then He can accept you as well.

  If you struggle with the sin of pornography, first recognize that you cannot be free in your own strength, but the Lord’s Spirit in you can give you the power to become free. Believe—have Faith—that the Lord will free you from this. It is not His will for you to stay in sin and if you are willing, He will delight in helping you out.

Read these Scriptures and stand on their promises—memorize them, know them, quote them when temptation comes: 1 Thess. 4:3-5, Ephesians 5:3-4, 1 Thess. 4:3, Psalm 24:3-4, James 1:12-16, Psalm 119:9-11, Phil. 4:13, James 4:7-8, Matthew 1:21,   Heb. 2:17-18, 1 John 2:14, Psalm 101, Job 31:1, 2 Timothy 2:20-21, 1 Cor. 10:13

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Why Do Young Men “chase” Young Women?


Why Do Young Men “chase” Young Women?

One word L-U-S-T!

      Sadly, many times young men chase young women with lustful intentions. Some run after the ladies to obtain a meaning in their life (to fill a void for companionship or to satisfy a false understanding of love) or to have “fun” (they use the woman for a while, while she is fun—just like a video game, an object—but when interest is lost and the thrilling hype is no longer there, they “trade” her for someone else that catches their eye).

      O Christians, have young men made a fatal mistake in how they ‘go after’ a young woman? Have they ever read Proverbs? Do they not know of anything that will last them through life?

     Sadly, many young men know only worthless things: thrill, pleasure, laziness, and distraction. I have committed all four of these worthless acts—and pursued them! in my youth—but I have learned that they are hollow and deceptive, they are lies of Satan. I used to use video games as a drug. When I was tired, discouraged, depressed, or confused, I would just turn on a video game and tune it all out. Just letting a distraction free up my mind. O the folly! I should have been turning to the Lord on my knees in fervant prayer, rather than such a worldly solution! I pursued the way I felt (pleasure), I was slothful, and I fed on the lustful thrill of chasing young women for my own selfish pleasure—I didn’t really care about them or about a marriage created by God. But I found a real relationship with the Lord and the Holy Spirit became my teacher! Then, I was led by the Word and convictions. My Faith has become my life instead of an accessory to my life.

      May we all recognize the follies of sin and it’s many rooted lusts and turn our hearts to the Lord!

Read Matthew 6.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Love


Love

“And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

1 Corinthians 13:13 NKJV

    Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;  does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

        Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.  For we know in part and we prophesy in part.  But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.

        When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.  For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.

And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

1 Corinthians 13:4-13 KJV

Friday, June 20, 2014

“For we walk by faith, not by sight.” 2 Corinthians 5:7 KJV


 “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” 2 Corinthians 5:7 KJV

 

       We don’t accept Christ because we understand everything God did through Jesus. There are many, many Scriptural prophecies that Jesus fulfilled, but we don’t have to know them all to accept Christ. We become Christians by Faith in Christ. We are to live by Faith, not by sight. You don’t need to be an “intellectual,” just to trust like a simple child—it’s by Faith.

Thursday, June 19, 2014

Remember: Your first love


Remember: Your first love

      A man from my church took some time to give me this piece of advice: remember your first love. He wasn’t talking about a young woman who would become my wife, he was talking about Christ. He told me to persevere—that if I stumble and fall to get back up, not to fall down and stay down, and to do everything I can not to fall; yet to get up if I do. He related these things to the story of Marry and Martha. He told me that I must remember to sit and listen to Jesus and not always be “busy” like Martha. Martha was so busy that she cried out to God to have Marry help her, but she was supposed to sit and listen by putting everything else aside.

How can you remember your first love today?

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Remember My Dad


Remember My Dad

       This day will be a description of my Dad and what he has taught me. The focus is to realize our parent(s) strengths, and discard their weaknesses. Boys need to learn to be men and fathers are a major part of that, second only to God.

Remember

My Dad

     “Diligence…Integrity…Don’t give up, son…Stick to what you committed to first do…honor… America is blessed, don’t forget it…commitment…follow God” – these are the things that my Dad has taught me.

       I realized tonight, June 27th, 2010, the day after my sixteenth birthday; that I only achieved my Gold Medal of Achievement (equivalent to an Eagle Scout) because of what my Heavenly Father and earthly Father have taught me. DETERMINATION, INTEGRITY, and PERSERVERANCE (even though it is a struggle many times to do so). My father’s example taught me, prepared me, encouraged me, cheered me on, and pulled me through. My Dad supports me even when I mess up. He reflects Christ in many ways.

       Dad … I love you! I thank you for praying for my future wife with me & telling me that you are proud of me just because I am your son. Thanks for telling me that even though I have accomplished a lot in my sixteen years that you are proud of me, even if I hadn’t accomplished all those things. Dad, thanks for putting up with my youthful vigor and excitement (at times). Dad, thanks for letting me learn from other men to: Mr. Wassall, Mr. Newfield, Mr. Wenneker, Mr. Schnable, Mr. Williams, Mr. Sherrill, etc… Dad, without you allowing me to grow and learn from these and still other men, in addition to what I have learned from you, I wouldn’t be the person that I am today. Surely God has blessed me with a Dad like you. HE knew that you’re the Dad for me!

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

The Heart is the issue


The Heart is the issue

    Why do we sin? What is the greatest problem in life? What can love sometimes yet lust at others, trust sometimes yet doubt at others? The heart. The heart is the issue.

 The Bible says, Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” Proverbs 4:23 KJV

     You cannot change your heart by your willpower. Trust me, I have tried! The only way your heart can change is to have it transformed, “transplanted.” Ask the Lord to give you a spiritual heart transplant.

       Lord, please give us all a Heart Transplant. Change our hearts, create a new heart within us that is attune to Your will, loving, and the heart that You want us to have in this season of life. In Jesus Name, amen.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Make a Purity Creed


Make a Purity Creed

         Making a purity creed for yourself helps to steer you in the right direction. This is especially beneficial to men because of the battle against lust. Still, I believe that women can gain a benefit from developing their own purity creed as well. To give you an idea of what I mean, here is my personal purity creed:

#1 I will guard my purity in all situations and do my best to avoid potentially dangerous circumstances.

#2 I commit to guarding my eyes and Job 31:1 is my battle cry.

#3 Since my body isn’t my own, but God’s, why should I endanger it whether spiritually or physically?

#4 I turn to God for the strength to resist every temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13).

#5 I choose to guard myself from TV programs which display purity, sex, and using women as a mere ‘device’ and not a sin.

#6 I believe that God will guide me to the woman I am to marry. (Isaiah 40:31, Isaiah 48:17, Genesis 24, and Isaiah 30:21)

#7 I commit not to kiss the woman I will marry (and no one else) until my wedding day.

      Whether you agree with this creed or not, having your own creed will help you to “stay on track.” Just getting something down on paper and reviewing it does a lot to help you stick to what you wrote. Please take the time to live it out.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

“What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Mark 10:9 KJV


What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Mark 10:9 KJV

     Mere men and women should not separate what God has joined together and disobedience to God’s Word requires correction, just like disobedience to one’s earthly parents requires punishment. Because men and women today are not honoring the fact that God has joined them together, families are being broken, children are being left fatherless, hearts are being broken, and people are selfishly following their own “needs” instead of God.

    Are you the victim of a divorced family? Do you want to be the victimizer of another? Hopefully not! Dear friend, we must acknowledge what God has done: joining marriages for life. May we obey lest we reap the lasting consequences of our hastily sown seed of divorce in this country.

Think about this today:

Before a man and woman marry, one important block to lay in their relationship is the fact that they will never separate the bond that God created between them.

They say this in their vows, but won’t live it without true commitment, that is, true love (1 Cor. 13).

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Busy or Occupied? . . . The Lord is coming back!


Busy or Occupied? . . . The Lord is coming back!

  Being occupied is simply doing something with purpose. Busyness is often doing just for the sake of doing, but occupation is actual work with a defined goal. Our occupation should be rooted in our Lord’s will. Are we doing as He would do? Are we willing to forsake the things that He would forsake? True occupation is living a life for our Lord and not for our own betterment. We might have a lot to do as we follow Him, but it should be a joyous, purposeful occupation, not a hated routine.

We can choose to be occupied with our Lord, both in work and rest; or we will be living a busy life.

Get alone before the Lord and seek His answer to this question: Are you busy with needless things or are you occupied living the life that you were meant to live?

An AMAZING ‘love’ story


An AMAZING ‘love’ story

    Read through the love story of Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24.

    What did you learn? In modern times, this type of story doesn’t seem possible, but God moves beyond cultures and ages to accomplish HIS will. Take some time and pray that God becomes part of your future or existing “love story.” Invite the Lord to permeate this area of your life so much that many people are touched with your joy and understanding that guidance to “the One” is given by God.

Friday, June 13, 2014

“And the two shall become one FLESH….”


“And the two shall become one FLESH….”

      God moves on to tell us in the first few chapters of Genesis that the reason for a guy and gal have to leave their Mom and Dad is marriage (Genesis 2:24). They leave so that they can become one flesh; and the two becoming one flesh is much deeper than the physical closeness of sex that some interpret it to mean. Instead, it is a spiritual bond, one where two individuals become one that is personified in two bodies. This one fact explains why divorce and losing a spouse is so devastating—they lost a part of themselves, not just a person they knew.   . . . what God has joined, let no man separate.

      When two people (a man and a woman and only a man and a woman) become one flesh, something happens to the one that has now been formed. Men become husbands, fathers, and providers. While women transition into wives, mothers, helpmeets, and nurturers. Today, contemplate why God created the two to become one and how their new oneness is more balanced than their individuality.

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Marriage – an examination of the destination


Marriage – an examination of the destination

    We are going to dive into a short, but intense series where we will look at courtship, marriage and “romance” from God’s guidelines. Genesis is the best place to start, so your assignment before moving forward is to read Genesis 1:26-2:25.

      Adam and Eve’s “love story” is the first picture of marriage in the Bible. God created the Eve for Adam. God brought them together. It is important to note that they did not seek each other out or place an order. It was God’s working. The Lord knew that Adam (man) needed a helpmeet (woman), thus He brought them together in an extraordinary way.

       The name that Adam gave his helpmeet’s gender says a lot. Some scholars believe that Adam called Eve “woman” because she was the “womb man” in other words, that she was from the womb of a man (Adam’s body, his rib).  Another viewpoint, which isn’t scripturally grounded, is that Adam called Eve “wo-man” because when he saw her he was saying “WO!!! MAN!!!”

      For today, pause and contemplate the significance of God orchestrating the entire relationship between Adam and Eve and the fact that Eve came from God through Adam.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

The Finding Principle 1 Corinthians 7:27 vs. Proverbs 18:22


1 Corinthians 7:27 vs. Proverbs 18:22

The Finding Principle

 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.” 1 Corinthians 7:27 KJV

Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22 KJV

    At first glance these Scriptures can appear to contradict each other: after all, one says don’t look for a wife and the other says that he who finds one receives favor from the Lord. How do you find something without looking for it? The answer is actually very simple. Think about when you have misplaced an important item like your keys. As you look in odd places trying to find them, you find things that you didn’t even know were there, right? It’s the same in our lives. If we seek the Lord Jesus and His kingdom first, then everything else we need will be added to us (Matthew.6:33). If you need a wife (or husband), God will provide (check out Genesis 24 for an example)!

    Are you unmarried? Don’t go looking for a wife! Seek the Lord. He will lead you and, as you follow Him, you will find that wife (if it is His will for you): to find a wife is to find what is good and receive favor from the Lord!

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Mere Talk Leads only to Poverty


Mere Talk Leads only to Poverty


 

In all labour there is profit: but the talk of the lips

tendeth only to penury (This means poverty).

Prov 14:23 (KJV), parenthesis added

 

   There is a great disconnect in America today between talking and actually doing something. The Proverb above is absolutely true—American’s like to sit and talk about everything. We watch talk shows that bear absolutely no fruit in our lives despite the many hundreds of hours that we have sacrificed to view them. We listen to radio programs and so on. Now, I am not saying that listening to someone or something is ever wrong. It can be very fruitful at times! However, what Americans need learn is to stop talking and start laboring.

    No longer are Americans known for being people who do something as our ancestors were. The Pilgrims, the Puritans, the Settlers of the West were people who worked hard. Today, we don’t see that very much. And in my generation it seems virtually non-existent.

    The Bible is very emphatic that hard work and diligence bring rewards. Here are a few:

Much food in tillage of the poor

Much food is in the tillage of the poor: but there is

 that is destroyed for want of judgment.

Prov 13:23 (KJV)

 

Know the state of thy flocks and herds

Be thou diligent to know the state of

thy flocks, and look well to thy herds.

Prov 27:23 (KJV)

 

Lambs for clothing and goats for price of the field

The lambs are for thy clothing, and the goats are the price of the field.

27 And thou shalt have goats' milk enough for thy food, for the food

of thy household, and for the maintenance for thy maidens.

Prov 27:26-27 (KJV)

 

    These verses refer to animals and crops that are daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly tended to. Today, our average lifestyle in America means get up, eat, get a shower and go to work/school. There is not much routine that we must do to provide for ourselves and our families. We aren’t milking the cows and gathering the eggs, but spending fifteen seconds to get the milk and pour it on our cereal. Many then sit in offices all day—doing very little physically.

     This does not appear to line up with God’s plan. Despite modern conveniences, we still need to apply effort in our daily lives. Americans have one of the, if not the highest, standards of living in the world but without getting back to hard work it will ultimately crumble.

     During my time in an office environment, I was in and saw meetings take place far too often. We talked and talked and talked about the problem and solutions but so little was usually done. Months later, the same things would simply be repeated and action delayed once again. Some meetings can be fruitful if decisive action is taken, but mere talk (simply talking about the problem for the sake of talking), as the Bible says, leads to poverty. There is no productivity or great result. Paul warned us to avoid foolish controversies—I’ve been learning that a lot of conversations about politics and even doctrine is usually a foolish controversy. I think that Facebook posts and articles are more effective it seems to actually reaching people with truth in small snippets. Yet, a lot of Facebook “debates” need to be avoided. In other words, learn to detect when someone is genuinely asking a question and open to hear what God’s Word has to say and what the facts of history are and when they just want to argue. When people just want to argue refuse to waste time talking with them and move on. There may be some cases where God prompts us by His Holy Spirit to boldly confront the arrogant fool, but generally speaking, talking with a fool is a foolish controversy, mere talk that should be avoided.

But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions,

 and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain.

Titus 3:9 (KJV)

 
 

  
We need to be doing things. Too long in America, we stay children. The average man isn’t grown up by thirty years of age, maybe even older by now, in this country. Children do not need to just play and be entertained (although there is a proper place for that), they need to be growing up, given small responsibilities to prove faithful in, experimenting, and trying out entrepreneurial endeavors while kids. Lemonade stands, lawn maintenance, and garage sales teach lessons to kids that last a lifetime. And learning to be faithful in small, daily tasks and responsibilities teaches character that is rare to find today.

Monday, June 9, 2014

Will You Put Your Trust in God 1st or Others 1st?


Will You Put Your Trust in God 1st or Others 1st?


 

    I see a big question vying for supremacy in the hearts and lives of churches, families and individuals today in America. It’s a question that may be a bit confusing at first glance—Will you put your trust in God 1st or others 1st? Jesus taught us the golden rule which is to love others as we love ourselves, but today so many churches and individuals are putting others and their needs first instead of second. Let me explain. Jesus said that there are two commands that all the Law and the Prophets hand on: #1 Love God 1st with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and #2 Love others as yourself.
 

 


    Today, the focus of so many is how to reach, reach, reach more people. It is about getting a higher number of people involved in an effort to serve them inside programs and systems. Those who do this are bending over backwards, working themselves ragged, and rarely take any time to slow down and rest. But the truth is that Jesus rested. He even walked away from crowds that wanted Him to do miracles, sent His disciples away, and went to a solitary place to commune with His Father.

      The Bible also tells us that Jesus only did the will of His Father (John 6:38). Jesus never did anything that He wanted to do, but submitted every action to His Father. While we are imperfect, we still must aim for that standard and by God’s grace may we begin applying it on a consistent basis.

     Although we usually don’t think of it this way, putting others first is a form of idolatry. Anything ahead of our relationship with the Lord is idolatry. This is a challenging lesson that I am learning as well, but if I put any ministry, any activity, any endeavor, any person, anything before God, I am sinning.

     The core of the false teaching of seeker friendliness is putting other people and their needs ahead of a personal relationship with God. Thus, all that is built is programs and outreaches based on needs—another social gospel—not God’s Kingdom. God’s Kingdom is one that begins in the heart of a man and then works itself into His life, transforming Him into a new creation as the seed of Almighty God’s Spirit blooms and grows as it is fed with the living nutrients and water of Jesus Christ (the Word).
 
 

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Are You Listening to God?

Are You Listening to God?

They said to Moses, ’You speak with us, and we will hear;

 but let not God speak with us, lest we die’ `—Exodus 20:19

     We don’t consciously and deliberately disobey God— we simply don’t listen to Him. God has given His commands to us, but we pay no attention to them— not because of willful disobedience, but because we do not truly love and respect Him. “If you love Me, keep My commandments” (John 14:15). Once we realize we have constantly been showing disrespect to God, we will be filled with shame and humiliation for ignoring Him.

      “You speak with us, . . . but let not God speak with us . . . .” We show how little love we have for God by preferring to listen to His servants rather than to Him. We like to listen to personal testimonies, but we don’t want God Himself to speak to us. Why are we so terrified for God to speak to us? It is because we know that when God speaks we must either do what He asks or tell Him we will not obey. But if it is simply one of God’s servants speaking to us, we feel obedience is optional, not imperative. We respond by saying, “Well, that’s only your own idea, even though I don’t deny that what you said is probably God’s truth.”

 

    Am I constantly humiliating God by ignoring Him, while He lovingly continues to treat me as His child? Once I finally do hear Him, the humiliation I have heaped on Him returns to me. My response then becomes, “Lord, why was I so insensitive and obstinate?” This is always the result once we hear God. But our real delight in finally hearing Him is tempered with the shame we feel for having taken so long to do so.

 
--Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest
--http://utmost.org/are-you-listening-to-god/

Saturday, June 7, 2014

A Short Thought

    The core of the false teaching of seeker friendliness is putting other people and their needs ahead of a personal relationship with God. Thus, all that is built is programs and outreaches based on needs—another social gospel—not God’s Kingdom. God’s Kingdom is one that begins in the heart of a man and then works itself into His life, transforming Him into a new creation as the seed of Almighty God’s Spirit blooms and grows as it is fed with the living nutrients and water of Jesus Christ (the Word).

Friday, June 6, 2014

Start Praying Now


Start Praying Now

Hey guys, how many of you want to be married?

Hey girls, how many of you want to be married?

    Alright, most of you probably want to get married one day. Are your reasons Biblical or LUSTFUL, though? The Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Truth, will tell you if you’re honest with yourself.

     Pray for that ONE. Right now, set aside some time and pray for her or him. Pray for God to give him or her strength, to equip them, to empower them, to embolden them, to loose the TRUTH of God’s Word within them, to develop character in them, for them to have a thriving and dependent relationship with Jesus; for them to live stewardship right now (i.e. tithing, financial wisdom, and wisdom with their time, resources and talents - for God) and you complete the list.

       Invite God’s hand into the life of your future spouse—they need CHRIST and so do YOU. Give Christ Charge in their life today! Pray that special helpmeet or servant leader into the throne room of God right now. You may not know them, but prayer spans the miles and years.

“….The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.”

James 5:16 KJV

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Lack of Dependence on Each Other = DIVORCE ???


 Lack of Dependence on Each Other = DIVORCE ???

    Dear readers, as much as some of us hate to admit it, we are all dependent on others. For example, I am more dependent on my parents than I let on. They counsel me, bandage my bruises, and instruct me in the way of the Lord; but I still have a choice to make: will I be healthily dependent on them? What I mean is that I need to grow up, get a job, move out and get married one day. It wouldn’t be healthy to be dependent on them for everything when I’m 40 when I have the capacity physically and mentally to provide for myself and a family.

     Without the same principle of dependence, a marriage is not possible. A husband and a wife are supposed to “become one” (Gen. 2:24). What does that mean? I have heard Kevin Swanson illustrate it this way:  an ax head and an ax handle are both needed to have an ax, right? One piece alone cannot, and will not efficiently cut down the tree. In the same way a man and a woman that have married need each other to “get-the-job-done.”

        When marriage is no longer dependence on one another; but rather, two separate people that just said some vows, live together, and have children, there is no reason for a marriage to continue in many minds. People get bored of a life like that. But God meant marriage to be so much more than what we think it is. It is to be the foundation of the family, yet also an intimate relationship where two people become one in the sight of God. O this is a mystery!

 

Dear Christians, the divorce rate is higher in the Church than the world!

We do NOT live what we preach and what Jesus taught!

 

      Young adults, children, young men and women, older boys and girls or whatever you want to be labeled, you need to ground your marriage in God! Both of you being dependent on God together will be the strongest binding force of your marriage. Please, do not just become another statistic in the divorce rates when you get older. You have a role to play in a lasting marriage! When you marry, you have a part to play in the one person that emerges from two. Work together, love each other, but most importantly grow in Christ’s Truth together!

     Dependence is a key to marriage. You must be dependent on each other and God; you cannot separate through divorce, that is the only way a marriage can last. Husbands, no other woman will do. Wives, there is no other man for you. You are made for one person. Your vows last the whole lifetime that you are both to spend in this world. Live, learn, and grow in God’s love; grace; purpose; plan and everything else HE has for YOU TWO.

Read 1 Peter 3:1-7.

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